It’s easy to feel upset when you see all your friends hanging out on social media and either you weren’t invited or couldn’t make it. Today I talk about what I do when I see on social media that I’m left out!
https://youtu.be/I2JN8i8KpYI
What to do When You Get in a Fight with Your Best Friend
Fighting with your best friend is uncomfortable and can make you really upset. It’s hard to know what to do in this situation! Today I’m sharing my BEST tip when it comes to making up with your bff.
https://youtu.be/hwRbS3ltGYE
A Week in the Life of a Modern Mentor
A note about Halloween:
This Halloween so many girls reached out to me panicking. There was stress over what costumes to wear, which group of friends to dress up with, which group of friends to go trick-or-treating with and the disappointment when things didn’t work out the way they wanted. November 1st, I heard all about the FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) from all the pictures they’ve been seeing online of everyone else’s Halloween.
All the stress over the holiday definitely took away from the fun. We forget that people are only showing us what they want us to see, not the whole story. Also, this is an amazing #MeToo moment. So many girls reached out to me and need to hear that they’re not alone.
In today’s blog, I’m sharing a week in life of a Modern Mentor and in order to give you a more whole version of the story, I’ve also included insight on what’s not shown. I hope you enjoy!
Thursday:
I spent all day getting ready for Friday’s #HangIn. I packed up everything the night before (something I recommend to my students too)! These are all the water bottles that I wrapped in my stickers while watching Scandal.
Not pictured: Putting stickers on water bottles took a long time! Also, this picture can’t show you how nervous/excited I was for the event. I get afraid I’m going to forget something and I always get butterflies before a new group.
Friday:
The HangIn! I had the best time on Friday. The first part of the class was yoga to center my students then we went into a super fun talk about social media/texting/everything before finishing up with a really awesome Q&A. All the girls took a polaroid before class that they were able to take home after. Props included for the pics!
While the girls were in the yoga class, I hung up all the pictures. I even wrote little messages on the clothes pins too!
The girls were amazing during our chat!
My friend Cat (on the right) taught the yoga class!
Not pictured: The torrential rain that happened RIGHT before the HangIn started. It stressed me out, soaked the bottom of my jeans, and made me feel rushed when I finally did get to the studio. Also I was super nervous. I always want to make sure everyone finds the space and has a great time! It’s sometimes hard being a mentor and putting yourself out there!
Saturday:
Saturday night I met up with college friends who were in town. It was super fun to catch up. I miss them.
Not pictured: All the work I did before hanging out with my friends. I had groups, privates, and emails to get back on. By the time we got back from dinner, I wanted to fall asleep! #GroupNap
Sunday:
My sister, cousin, and I went for a hike near the George Washington Bridge. The views were amazing and it was perfect day for a hike.
Not pictured: We originally went to a trail that was closed because of bears! Eek! Also we had lots and lots of girl talk.
Monday:
I got sent a picture of my Modern Mentor card hung up in a dorm room. It made me so happy to know that my work is growing and making an impact on girls.
Not pictured: All the hard work it took (and still takes) to be a resource for girls!
Tuesday:
On Tuesdays I have dance. We had rehearsal at a different studio this particular class and we were so squished.
Not pictured: All the rushing I did to make it to rehearsal on time.
Wednesday:
Nothing. I didn’t take any pictures. I was mentoring and packing for my trip to Dallas the next day.
Thursday:
I got to Dallas and became very familiar with the Sprinkles Cupcake ATM.
Not pictured: How excited my best friend and I were to see Taylor Swift. We must have listened to the 1989 album a million times. Also not pictured, how I cried through the airport when I left Dallas. Best friends are the best!